The backdrop is Russia; it is war-time, early 20th century. Feeling the loss of their status, money, family and country; a group of aristocrat soldiers play a lethal game, perhaps to display their bravery, perhaps to commit suicide. One of them picks a revolver, places a cartridge in one of the several chambers of this revolver. They spin the cylinder so that the location of the cartridge is not known. The aristocrat points the revolver to his head and pulls the trigger. Bang!
Obviously, many aristocrats died. Others were lucky, they walked away
alive, unharmed and celebrated. While
many Africans living in Europe would not dare play the game of Russian
roulette, no matter how much money they were offered, many are caught up in a
riskier form of a similar game. There are few chances here; it is a ‘no-win’
situation. Young undocumented Africans,
eking out a living in the big cities of Europe, find themselves alone in a
foreign land. Many gamble with high risk sex, playing a game of Russian roulette as it were.
For the young African woman especially, illegality is a challenge. She is placed in a vulnerable position. She
may view being undocumented as having no rights, no shelter, no access to
medical care, no money, no food, no peace. If she is not well informed or
protected, she falls into the trap of selling her body. In the big European
cities, female migrants are caught up in a fast growing endemic of promiscuity,
for no other reason than being illegal. On one hand, these may be women who are
fleeing dangerous situations in their countries, where men have raped women as
a weapon of war. Others have undergone traumatic and often brutal genital
mutilations. Yet when these same women
arrive in Europe, only to find their applications to stay in the country
rejected, and out on the streets, the harsh reality begins to set in and sex
becomes a strategy for survival.
Research done by SOA-Aids Netherlands in October 2006 among the heterosexual
Black community, established that sex was used as a salient exchange commodity
by women. Men gave them money, and women in return took care of all their
needs. When money begins to flow and the women are past survival, they find
themselves at a point of no return and trapped in a life on the fast lane.
Free-lance writer Zack Bigalke from Portland, Oregon writes that, “Women
smarter than ever, have learned that their bodies are money-generating machines
which can easily draw much larger pay-checks than most other jobs.’
And that is the main problem, sex does sell,
and many African migrant women get addicted to the business of having myriads
of sexual partners. Where does the pull to hang in there come from? A
combination of factors; bad company, a lack of social skills, a low-level of
education and the rush to make big bucks quick. Many women unwittingly
encourage others to join them. Money
comes easy in this business, they say. So there’s the attraction of the ‘invincible
Euro,’ the demands of relatives back home, the desire to mirror the lifestyles,
dress and mannerisms of the characters played out by the beautiful West African
actresses of Nollywood; keeping up with the latest designer fashions, smelling
like a queen, and owning the latest gizmos at the drop of a hat.’ All at a risk of catching a Sexually
Transmitted Infection (S.T.I).
Despite the fact that most men initiate and control sex, paying for it
with their greater wealth; given that a woman’s body is structured to receive, a
woman is eight times more likely to become infected from a single sexual act
with an infected man than a man is likely to become infected from a single
sexual act with an infected woman, states Arthur J. Amman, President of Global
Strategies for HIV prevention, San Francisco. Not only is the likelihood for
infection for women greater, but also infection can be present in and spread by
them when they do not have any symptoms of the disease. It becomes a silent
killer. African migrant women should be empowered and educated about their
sexual health and reproductive rights. They need to have good social skills
that include the ability to negotiate safe sex, a better understanding on the
working of their bodies and the risks of a promiscuous lifestyle. Global
agencies, international policy makers, African leaders and civil societies
should push to make education for the Girl-Child in Africa free at all levels;
such an action would encourage society in Africa to send their female children
to school. Migrant churches and faith-based organizations in Europe need to
address sexuality and behavior change among both men and women.
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